{"id":6549,"date":"2021-07-29T18:31:38","date_gmt":"2021-07-29T15:31:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dpc.or.tz\/?p=6549"},"modified":"2021-07-29T18:31:43","modified_gmt":"2021-07-29T15:31:43","slug":"reborn-to-impact-creating-impactful-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dpc.or.tz\/?p=6549","title":{"rendered":"REBORN TO IMPACT (CREATING IMPACTFUL RELATIONSHIPS)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>CREATING IMPACTFUL RELATIONSHIPS\u00a0\u00a0<br>Outline<\/strong>1.<strong>What must be done to create\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0an impactful relationship?<\/strong><br>2.<strong>What are the benefits of having impactful\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0relationships?<\/strong><br>3.<strong>What does the bible say about healthy relationships?<br><\/strong>\u25cfWhat is relationship? The way in which two or more people or things are connected, or the state of being connected.\u00a0<em>(The Oxford Dictionary)<\/em>\u2022<br>\u2022The state of being connected by blood or marriage<em>.(Collins English Dictionary)<\/em><br>\u2022The state of being connected by marriage\u2022The state of being connected by marriage<br>\u2022Types of Relationships<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. Secular Relationship\u2022\u2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. Christian Relationship <br>\u2022What is a Christian Relationship?<br>\u2022How Christians associate with each other in the manner that pleases GOD.<br>\u2022The relationship is devoid of sexual activities and sinful practices e.g.\u00a0Mary and Joseph.<br>\u2022It is relationship borne out of true love, trust and sacrifice.\u00a0<br>\u2022Both partners let GOD guide their relationship.<br>\u2022<strong>What must be done to create\u00a0an impactful relationship?<\/strong><br><br>\u2022<strong>1. You must be born again:\u00a0John 3:1\u20137<br><\/strong>Being born again is an act of God whereby eternal life is imparted to the person who believes: <br>2 Corinthians 5:17<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Benefits<\/strong> Your relationship will be in line with GOD`s commands. (Galatians 5:22-23) Your relationship will be God centered that depicts glory of GOD.\u00a0(<em>Song of Songs 2:7)<\/em>\u2022<br><br><strong>2. Hard work<\/strong>\u2022<strong>Hard work\u2026.E.g.\u00a0<\/strong><em>Ruth and Boaz<\/em><br>Ruth would go to the fields each day to collect food in the fields during the harvest.qBoaz was a landowner where Ruth came to find grain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Benefits<\/strong>\u00a0You will be able to achieve your goals and fulfill your dreams.qHard work leads to self-development.qYou gain reputation as a reliable person.\u00a0Motivation will Increase as you begin to see results<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>(<\/em><\/strong><em>Don\u2019t be that person who wants the results of labor without sweating).\u00a0<\/em>Idle hands never get anything done.<br><br>\u2022<strong>3. Vision<\/strong><br>Vision means seeing the future today (futuristic).\u2022<strong>\u00a0Vision \u2026<\/strong>Setting a vision for your relationship or future relationship is not just good, but extremely important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Benefits<\/strong> Vision brings purpose and direction to your relationshipqqIt makes it clear for you to see what you desire, where you are going, and what gifts and contributions you bring.\u2022<strong>4. Positive Attitude<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t be negative on the challenges that you face in the relationship, believe that there is breakthrough. Trust GOD that, He will make a way&nbsp;<em>e.g. Joseph and Mary<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How do you create positivity in your relationship?<\/strong> Avoid unnecessary criticismqCompliment your partnerqLook on the positive memories of your relationship\u00a0qFocus on gratitude (small things count)<br>Open communication and feedback Self improvement<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Benefits<\/strong>; When you have a positive outlook in life, naturally you have more positive outlook in relationship.\u2022Positive attitude \u2026.\u2022<br><br><strong>5.\u00a0Set Boundaries<\/strong>\u2022 Surround yourself with Godly people\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Benefits<\/strong>\u00a0 You get the safety of wise counsel:\u00a0\u201cWhere no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors there is safety\u201d\u00a0<strong>(Proverbs 11:14).<\/strong>\u00a0They keep you sharp.\u00a0 You can grow together. As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend\u201d\u00a0<strong>(Proverbs 27:17)<\/strong> They make you better \u2018\u2019Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm\u2019\u2019<strong>\u00a0(Proverbs 13:20)<\/strong><br>\u2022Practical God centered relationship that depicted God&#8217;s Glory. Jacob and Rachel: Genesis 29<br>\u2022Ruth and Boaz: Book of Ruth\u00a0qJoseph and Mary\u00a0\u2022What does the bible say about healthy relationships?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1Cor 6:18<\/strong> \u2022Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.\u2022\u2022Conclusion\u2022Letting GOD guide your relationship is necessary commitment for Christian relationships. Do not lean in your own understanding.\u2022<br>\u2022As a Christian your relationship must abide with biblical principles (no shortcuts).\u2022\u2022Stable Relationship will lead you to the happy marriage and stable future\u00a0\u2022\u2022Real love that is patient not envy or boast, it is not resentful but rejoices with the truth\u00a0\u00a0<strong>( 1 Corinth 13: 4-7 )<\/strong>\u2022<br><br>Audio Link, (Pakua\/Sikiliza Sauti haha)\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/dpctzorg.ipage.com\/Media3\/Youth\/02%20Creating%20Impactiful%20relationship.mp3\">Download\/listen here<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CREATING IMPACTFUL RELATIONSHIPS\u00a0\u00a0Outline1.What must be done to create\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0an impactful relationship?2.What are the benefits of having impactful\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0relationships?3.What does the bible say about healthy relationships?\u25cfWhat is relationship? 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