{"id":8793,"date":"2024-10-30T19:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-30T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dpc.or.tz\/?p=8793"},"modified":"2024-11-06T11:54:35","modified_gmt":"2024-11-06T08:54:35","slug":"life-skills-in-the-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dpc.or.tz\/?p=8793","title":{"rendered":"Life skills in the Family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>DPC-MARRIED COUPLES\u2019 MINISTRY<br><br>LIFE SKILLS IN THE FAMILY<\/strong>. By Rosemarie Twagirayezu-Kwimbere<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Reflections on the Importance of Life Skills<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;According to&nbsp;<strong>the Bible: Proverbs 22:6&nbsp;<\/strong>\u201cTrain up a child in the way he should go; and when he is old he will not depart from it\u201d NKJV<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;According to the WHO, life skills are the abilities required for \u2018adaptive and positive&nbsp;behaviour\u2019, empowering individuals to effectively navigate the challenges of daily life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;UNICEF characterizes life skills as an approach focused on developing&nbsp;behaviour, aiming to strike a balance between knowledge, attitudes, and skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">IMPORTANT THINGS TO CONSIDER<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Have a united front- avoid divided language&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Demonstrate and Instill moral values:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Truthfulness and honesty<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-discipline &amp; Self Motivation<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Focus and Self-Control Gal. 5:22-23<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Respect and valuing others<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Empathy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Generosity<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hard working attitude<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Positive attitude- being optimistic about life and knowing that God Cares<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family: Communication<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Trusting and Depending on God<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Effective Communication Skills:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Important for language development, Social interaction, Self-expression and cognitive skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Encourage your child to engage in discussions, express themselves and listen actively<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Timely Communication, Open Communication, Listening skills,&nbsp;<strong>Critical Thinking<\/strong>&nbsp;(\u2018why\u2019, \u2018what if\u2019 questions), Keeping in touch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family:&nbsp;<br>Basic Hygiene<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Self<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Environment<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Public Spaces<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family:&nbsp;<\/strong><strong>Health &amp; Nutrition<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;\u2018We are what we eat\u2019- Importance of developing a varied palate<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Teaching about Nutrition and demonstrating it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Cooking&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Physical Exercises- Demonstrating it- Anyone SWIMMING?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Adequate Sleep? Sleep robbers<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family: Good Manners<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Be aware of Cultural differences and Changing Trends<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;BUT, REMEMBER THE GOLDEN RULE! Do unto others as you\u2019d have them do to you Luke 6:31<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Participating in House chores<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family: Time Management<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Do you have a plan for your day, week, months?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Do you instill the importance of time in your children through demonstrating it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family:<\/strong><strong>Financial Literacy&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Acquiring Money and wealth(Planning)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Budgeting<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Saving<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Spending<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Investing in viable projects<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;How funds and wealth work<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Decision making<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family: Critical Thinking<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Ability to analyze and evaluate information to guide their beliefs, decisions and actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Children need critical thinking to make sense of the world around them and to solve problems<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family:&nbsp;<\/strong><strong>Independent<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Develop it according to age:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Teach, Guide, Monitor, Give feedback, affirm progress<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Demonstrate that you trust the Child<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Give tasks to challenge them<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Life Skills in the Family:&nbsp;<\/strong><strong>Negotiation Skills<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Toddlers<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Elementary School&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Teens<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Young Adults<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Corporate World&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Life Skills in the Family:Taking on Challenges<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Step out of your comfort zone&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Taking on new tasks&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Helps with personal growth &amp; development&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022Critical for self-improvement&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Life Skills in the Family:&nbsp;<strong>Coping with Failure<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;Life is full of Challenges<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022&nbsp;No one is Immune<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Thank&nbsp;&nbsp;You For Listening<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DPC-MARRIED COUPLES\u2019 MINISTRY LIFE SKILLS IN THE FAMILY. 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